Rabbi, please advise me, my marriage is falling apart because I can't stop being forgetful, unorganized, impulsive in my decision making; as much as I promise myself I will do it, and try harder and not upset my husband with those horrible midot I just keep having the same problems. My poor husband just gets more angry and upset and more disappointed in me because I don't change. I feel desperate because I try to pay attention to everything and he tells me it's just a matter of being conscious and wanting to change (and I do want I love him very much). Please help me.

Asked on September 14, 2020