Dear, Rabbi Yaron Reuven what should I do when my family watches family movies, how do I avoid it. They want me to be there with them? Is this a lack of Kibud Ad Va em? Am I allowed to be there but just not stare at the Tv, I don’t want them to know that I am not staring at the Tv? Also I use my phone to call and text my friends for ahavat Yisroel and also use it to listen to Jewish music... is there any problem with having a smart phone if you are using it for Torah purposes? Also there is Jewish music that has nice beats and fast dj sounds is this appropriate even if it talks about Hashem. Also I am turning 19 soon and I want to make sure that when I am looking for shidduchim that when I get married I will only wear a mitpachat blei neder, how do I make sure to stick to it and inspire others to also wear a mitpachat without rebuking them in an offensive way? Can I wear bottom eye liner and mascara that is dark but it’s not so noticeable is this appropriate? Is eye shadow allowed, is it modest? Is wearing my hair out appropriate if it’s long, what is the best modest way to wear hair? Thank you for all you do have a night May Hashem continue to bless you with lots of health and happiness and only good in you and your family’s lives.

Asked on November 17, 2020