Dear Rav. After our first son was born, we couldn't get pregnant for 3 years so we started treatment. The doctor said he needed my husbamd's sperm, so we asked a rabbi how to do that because we kind of knew it was not so good besides we had to use a condom and we knew it is not allowed. So we asked the rabbi we jad at that moment and he said that if we did a whole in it we could because the law is that the sperm has to go into the vagina. My question is, how come he said it is allowed if some of the sperm will never get in contact with the woman because the idea is to collect it and then get it to the lab? I think we could have been told a bad advice. Thank you. Ruth

Asked on December 13, 2020