Health Tips From Sages - JEWISH INTIMACY (19)

null 00:00:00 Intoduction 00:00:00 Introduction: Health, Marriage, and Intimacy 00:00:55 Jewish Intimacy and Refuah Shlema 00:01:39 Dedication and Online Resources 00:02:24 Focus on the Lecture's Core Theme 00:02:54 Producing Holy Children: More Than Just Luck 00:03:46 Husband's Obligations in the Ketubah 00:04:24 Torah, Modesty, and Rights 00:05:42 Blessings, Healthy Marriage, and Lifelong Responsibility 00:07:16 Promoting Intimacy through Health 00:08:07 Spiritual Preparation for Sacred Intimacy 00:08:31 Elevating Soul to the Highest Level of Holiness 00:09:56 Three Stages of Conjugal Union and Health 00:10:42 Food, Health, and the Quality of Life 00:11:11 The Ramban on the Timing of Intimacy 00:12:34 The Ramban as a Medical Expert 00:13:33 Ramban's Expertise and the Impact of Food 00:14:55 Food's Effect on Seed, and Child's Quality 00:15:19 The Hour of Eating is an Hour of War 00:16:33 Ramban's Health Teachings and Sanctity 00:17:36 Rambam's Writings on Health and Jewish Intimacy 00:19:10 Jewish Intimacy: Balancing the Spiritual and Physical 00:19:42 The Importance of Precise Teachings for Daily Life 00:20:09 Food, Purity and the Creation of Seed 00:20:51 Food for Nourishment, Reproduction and Restoration 00:21:21 Factory of Digestion and Uncleanly Seed 00:22:19 Ramifications of Ignoring Wisdom: Personalitiy 00:23:20 Potentiality of Children 00:23:45 Following the Teaching for Best Offspring 00:24:40 Flaws and David HaMelech's insight 00:26:02 Default State, Times to eat and Times to be Close 00:27:25 Time of Intimacy for Peace and Order 00:28:05 The Second Half of the Night 00:28:58 Digesting and Calming the Body 00:29:55 Purifying before Close Contact 00:30:58 Don't Use Sex to Alleviate Anxiety 00:31:47 Hillel's Kindness to his Body 00:32:34 Physical and Spiritual Benefits 00:33:35 Purpose of Eating and Having Intimacy 00:34:28 Spiraling Downwards like Addicts 00:35:18 Pleasure as it Ends: Food and Sex 00:36:26 Dopamine and the Body's Degradation 00:37:20 A Long Term View of Buisness: Not Just to Raise Children 00:38:42 Blessings, Gratitude and Stealing From Hashem 00:40:16 Raising Acts to be L'Shem Shamayim 00:41:03 Joy and the Lowest Form of Sex 00:42:01 What seperates us from Animals 00:42:56 Massechet Gittin: Health and Quality of Life 00:43:48 Books about Health Based and the Connection to Hashem 00:45:08 Anger after Eating Can Turn Food into Poison 00:46:05 Avoid Excess and Problems with Bowels 00:47:06 Tips for a Clean and Healthy Life 00:48:33 Travelling and Weariness: Children and Purity 00:50:31 The Physical and Spiritual Side 00:51:30 Sex Positions: Which Ones to Avoid 00:52:29 How to Avoid a Constant State of Tiredness 00:53:33 For People who Love their Wives, But are Impotent 00:54:32 The Greatest Sage and the Body Fading 00:56:02 Quantity, Material, and Result 00:57:35 Losing the Magic: Impotency and Relationships 00:58:41 The Basics of Marriage: What the Torah Says 00:59:42 Intimacy, Love and Marriage: How They Relate 01:00:27 From Marriage to Roommates: The Road to Divorce 01:01:30 Ilusion of Better 01:01:54 Starting Relationships vs Existing One 01:02:40 Effort in New Relationship vs Exisiting One 01:03:32 All the Exciement: Fake and Overrated 01:04:20 The Evil Inclination to Jump Ship 01:05:08 Invest the Extra Energy, Instead of Abandoning Ship 01:05:55 The Yester Hara: Curiosity for Something New 01:06:24 Everyone thinks they have Access to the Best 01:06:53 Illusion with Hollywood and the Modern Days 01:07:23 Forgetting How Much has Been Invested to Maintain 01:07:52 Intimacy and the Lack of Passion 01:08:21 The Best Way to Combat This Illusion 01:08:45 Spiritual Elevation 01:09:13 Sefer Eitzot VeHadrachot, by Rabbi Nachum 01:09:43 Eating Small Fish (Sardines) is Good 01:10:34 The ancient Technique of Reflexology 01:11:02 Koach Gava: a Good Wife Massages her Husband 01:11:56 Massages and How to Help your Children 01:12:53 Great is He that Allows Others to do a Mitzvah 01:13:33 Get the Benefit 01:13:59 Not My Servant! Help Your Husband with Mitzvah 01:14:54 How to Overcome Being Quick During Sex 01:15:40 What You Need to do: Cold Water 01:16:34 Putting in Both Spiritual and Physical Effort 01:16:57 Light for the World and to Never Give Up 01:18:08 People have Hashem's Spark and The Islands Knowledges 01:19:10 Follow the Instructions 01:19:39 You are all Great with the Feedback from the Islands 01:20:29 Capsules, inflmation, and all the Benefits 01:21:05 Why did Angles Multiply Hagar Progeny? 01:22:01 Scents to Use for Intercourse? Compares to Witchcraft 01:23:05 Keep Clean! 01:23:43 The Wife of Yitchak: A Good Woman with Dark Origins 01:25:12 Yitzak and Esav 01:25:56 Esav had the Ability to do Good, but Lost it 01:27:01 There is Always a Possibility to Change 01:28:32 Everything is Weighted 01:29:08 What The Shulchan Aruch Has to Say About Tatoos 01:30:09 Cover it and get Rid of it if you Can 01:31:14 Do Not Marry Critical People: Be Warned 01:32:07 Take the Talmadichami, Not Just a Critical Person 01:32:47 To be Careful and Don't Judge the People from the Past 01:33:39 Need to be Careful Not to Lie, But Also Not to Spill All Details 01:34:33 Dont Talk About your Past 01:35:00 You Will Ruin Marraige 01:35:48 My Wifes Problem vs my Old Girlfriend 01:36:39 20 Year of Marrige Advice: Keep The Past in the Past 01:37:29 What to Think of the men not marrying: Unfair Laws? 01:37:44 Torah is Fair: It is Just Your Lack of Knowledge 01:38:59 Story From the Gemoro 01:39:45 The 6 Cities 01:41:08 Who Makes The Death Decisions 01:42:00 Why did Hashem let it Happen 01:42:58 In the Same Place 01:43:52 No Such Thing as Accidental 01:44:13 The Ignorance the More Unhappy You are 01:45:46 You Married Good: the Marriage Becomes Good 01:46:50 If Sometone Commits a Sin, can they be Forgiven? 01:47:30 Conclusion for the Night 01:47:58 If Someone Comes from Dirty Seed... 01:48:07 You Can Always Raise Yourself 01:48:55 How Long to Wait 01:49:28 Can you have Intercourse more than Once a Night? 01:49:52 More on Eating 01:50:17 Conclusion about this Series