How To Get To The Truth In Life, Business and Even Shidduchim? - MUSSAR Pirkei Avot (8 PART II)

Rabbi Yaron Reuven, in this shiur, emphasizes the importance of critical thinking and questioning to uncover the truth. He uses examples from conversion, shidduchim, business dealings, and even child-rearing to demonstrate how asking the right questions, going beyond surface-level answers, and being wary of those who present a perfectly polished image can lead to a deeper understanding of a situation. He emphasizes that genuine relationships are built on trust and require honesty, even if it means confronting uncomfortable truths. Rabbi Reuven underscores that the pursuit of truth is essential in all aspects of life, requiring diligence and a willingness to challenge our own assumptions. Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi-fAdFBv83gUzBgKm3PAyw/join BUILD WITH US (Who Is BeEzrat HaShem Inc) http://www.BHYESHIVA.com BeEzrat HaShem YESHIVA & BEIT MUSSAR BUILDING BUILD A JEWISH COMMUNITY THAT WILL CHANGE THE WORLD 00:00 Introduction 01:03 Applying the mishna to your daily life 08:08 Applying the mishna to your work life. Very insightful 20:18 Applying the misnah to raising kids. 21:06 Adultery in Jewish law; the precision of Jewish law 27:50 Aristotle and Judaism 30:27 Interrogate yourself 32:57 Who were Shemaiah and Abtalion? How are converts viewed in Judaism? 34:43 Getting a job that you feel is beneath you Part 1 36:23 Lazy millennials; an entitled generation 41:59 You are responsible for yourself 45:42 Getting a job that you feel is beneath you Part 2 47:31 Despise positions of power 49:15 Picking a career. Very insightful 55:55 Do not become overly familiar with the government 58:50 Entertainment for children 1:03:13 Career choices and celebrities 1:10:25 To find out the truth of how strong you really are, you must be put under pressure 1:17:32 Hear this miracle experienced by Rabbi Reuven 1:21:53 Tattoos 1:24:38 Try your best. A great motivational message. Part 1 1:29:28 A message everyone should hear 1:33:37 What kids should be taught Part 1 1:37:24 Intimacy before marriage for Jews Part 1. Three terrible sins in Judaism that mean eternal hell 1:41:57 Intimacy before marriage for Jews Part 2 1:46:30 Importance of Shabbat. It doesn’t matter if the Torah laws don’t make sense to you. 1:50:04 Intimacy before marriage for Jews Part 3 1:51:03 What kids should be taught Part 2 1:55:11 Fear of G-d is necessary 1:57:02 Try your best. A great motivational message. Part 2 #MussarPirkeiAvot #Judaism #Jewish #RabbiYaronReuven #Torah #KIRUV #TeShuvah #shidduch #intimacy #tattoo #marriage #shidduchim #childrearing #children #lazy #aristrotle #millenials #adultery #shabbat #relationship #job #power #conversion #truth #life #business #government #tattoos 00:00:00 Intoduction 00:01:04 Shimon ben Shetach's Wisdom 00:01:29 Applying Wisdom to Daily Life 00:02:22 Avoiding Multiple Choice Questions 00:02:52 Examples: Conversion and Dating 00:04:11 Verifying References and Truth 00:06:16 Open Questions and Responsibility 00:08:01 Interviewing and Detecting Falsehoods 00:09:50 Hiring a Personal Assistant: A Cautionary Tale 00:16:13 The Importance of Asking Difficult Questions 00:20:29 Rebuking Children and a Story 00:24:30 Divine Wisdom vs. Secular Wisdom 00:32:47 Love Work, Despise Power, Avoid Government 00:34:59 Work Ethic & Entitlement 00:37:35 Generational Issues and Opinions 00:41:16 Love Work and Stop Excuses 00:43:07 Personal Responsibility and Blessings 00:45:48 Importance of Experiencing Obstacles 00:47:48 Priorities, Priorities, Priorities 00:52:10 Passion & Skill Set for Career 00:54:04 Priorities, Passion, Skill Set for Career cont. 00:55:40 Government Relationship & Bribing 00:58:39 Questions on Raising Children 01:00:32 Movies and Career Choices for Children 01:03:29 Easy and Clean Professions 01:05:31 Right Education for the Kids 01:07:52 Role Models & Influence 01:10:30 The Ultimate Catalyst to the Truth 01:12:33 Pressure Revealing the Truth 01:14:53 Everything Collapsed 01:17:48 Miracle & Turning Points 01:20:19 Let Hashem Run the World 01:21:48 Connection to God 01:22:46 Repentance from Sins 01:24:34 Nobody is Righteous without Sin 01:25:51 Reward if you succeeded 01:26:49 Test and the Yetzer Hara 01:28:04 Don't Look for Signs 01:28:50 Complain and say Thank you 01:29:20 Every Day You try to say sorry 01:31:42 Return the Favor and People start Resenting 01:33:32 Start with Shomer Shabbat, not Negiah 01:34:34 Believe in God and Why 01:36:15 Believe that God run the World 01:37:39 Wasting Seed Sin and the Gehinnom 01:39:32 Wasting Seed is the Biggest Disaster 01:42:02 Incest and More Examples 01:42:55 Importance of Getting Marriage Soon 01:44:39 Tell the Truth and Teach the Kids 01:46:29 612 are worthless if without Shabbat 01:48:03 Divine Picture is Endless 01:49:13 Torah and Real Housewives 01:49:59 The Girls 01:52:00 Parents & Sheep 01:53:17 Believe that Hashem Runs the World 01:53:47 Nobody can Stand Out in this Generation 01:55:34 Details who Hashem Doesn't Like 01:56:46 It's Not Because it's Higher 01:58:09 Starting with Shabbat and Koshert 01:59:31 The Yetzer Hara 02:00:37 Buying Themselves for The Next World 02:02:05 Stress Vs Rewarding