If One Only Rebukes When Necessary, Is This a Sign of Good Middos? #Torah #shorts

If One Only Rebukes When Necessary, Is This a Sign of Good Middos? Laws of Yom Tov https://youtube.com/shorts/eqAL-yHQn8Q - - - - - BeEzrat HaShem Learn with Lerner LevLeib@BeEzratHaShem.org Join our FREE online classes every Monday to Thursday night: +1 201-725-3444 | JEW, BE, HOLY | - - - - - Textbook for the Shiur: The Laws of Yom Tov https://www.artscroll.com/Books/9781578191628.html Full Lecture: Increase the Amount" Preparing on Yom Tov - The Laws of Yom Tov (9) https://youtu.be/71IUGhxj9rU ———————— #Rebuke #Reproof #NeedOfRebuke #Kiruv #PureIntention #PureIntentionInRebuke #HelpJews #Teshuvah #Teshuva #Repent #Repentance #Halachah #Halachot #Halachos #Halachah #JewishLaw #Torah #Mitzvah #Mitzvot #Mitzvos #JewishValue #JewishHashkafa #Halachos #Halachot #BeezratHashem #RabbiLevLeibLerner #RabbiLerner #LearnWithLerner #BeezratHashemLearnWithLerner #BeezratHashemHalachot #BeezratHashemHalachos #LevLeibLerner #LevLerner #RabbiLevLerner, #shorts, In the complex world of interpersonal relationships and spiritual growth, the obligation of tochecha stands as one of the most delicate challenges a person can face. Within the framework of the 613 mitzvos, the command to offer rebuke is not merely a suggestion but a fundamental duty. However, a profound question arises regarding the internal motivation of the one speaking up. Does the feeling of discomfort or even a total dislike for confrontation actually validate the sincerity of the act? Rabbi Lev Leib Lerner explores the psychological and spiritual landscape of giving correction. There is a sharp distinction between a person who enjoys exerting authority and someone who steps forward out of a sense of pure responsibility. When an individual naturally prefers to avoid conflict yet chooses to speak because the Torah requires it, this resistance might be the very evidence that their intentions are lishmah. Someone who relishes pointing out the deficiencies of others or seeks to be a boss over their peers may be coming from a source of ego rather than a desire to help a fellow Jew. The goal of this mitzvah is never to humiliate or cause pain, but to assist another person in their journey toward righteousness. Yet, even with the best intentions, these conversations are inherently uncomfortable. Most would prefer to stay silent and maintain their own peace of mind. If you find yourself dreading the moment you have to speak up, you might actually be in the best position to perform this service correctly. How can we ensure our words are heard? What is the secret to balancing the sensitivity of a human soul with the uncompromising requirements of the halacha? Discover how to navigate these difficult waters and learn why your hesitation might be your greatest asset in fulfilling this vital part of divine service.