REBUKE WITH LOVE - MUSSAR Iggeret HaRAMBAN (2)

In this lecture, Rabbi Yaron Reuven delves into the profound teachings of Iggeret HaRamban, emphasizing the importance of humility, Torah observance, and ethical conduct for spiritual growth. He critiques modern society's disregard for Torah values, highlighting the consequences of such attitudes through contemporary examples. Rabbi Reuven also discusses the significance of proper leadership and the impact of individual actions on the community, urging listeners to adopt a lifestyle aligned with Torah principles to navigate the challenges of the modern world and to foster a closer relationship with God. To Donate and Support our Kiruv work please visit us at www.BeEzratHaShem.org. If you'd like to invite Rabbi Yaron Reuven or Rabbi Efraim Kachlon to give a lecture at your synagogue, home or office please email Yaron@BeEzratHaShem.org to see availability and make arrangements. Rabbi Yaron Reuven is based out of Florida, but travels around the world to give lectures to different groups. 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If you haven't learned Torah in a long time or ever, then its time to start friend. I guarantee you will enjoy the journey and life will never be the same, if you just give it a real chance. 0:00 Introduction 2:56 What is happening in Israel is a sign from Hashem 5:26 Heretic Mirvis in England strikes again with another bad deed 7:52 Very stupid and terrible things Bibi did 14:16 Do not rely on Trump. After all, his friends are Evangelicals 15:56 How can we become similar to Hashem? 17:19 How are our sages different from the thinkers of the secular world? 22:48 Kind deed done by Rav Reuven (help him do more deeds for Am Yisrael by donating) 24:42 Try to complete this letter once a week 26:01 The unique way the Rambam started his letter and what it teaches us about valuing our time 30:47 If you struggle with rebuking people, the first word of the letter, “hear,” will guide you. Hear to find out 39:35 Beautiful explanation of why the parshah of Matan Torah is named after Yitro the convert 41:55 What people should I focus on rebuking and how should I help them? 45:07 Hearing is the most critical sense you have 48:03 If you are a good teacher, you learn a lot about your students through their Questions: 49:04 Are you listening to these shiurim but not changing? 51:24 How do you pick the right rabbi? 53:44 What people should I focus on rebuking and how should I help them? (Continued) 54:41 An unbelievable story about a soldier who was saved from a disaster by putting his shoes on according to halacha 1:05:40 Crucial advice for rebuking from the words, “my son,” in the Ramban’s letter 1:10:37 You have the potential to be like Moses or Jeroboam. Who are you leaning towards? 1:17:21 Why did the Holocaust happen? Why do I have tragedies? 1:28:52 What people should I focus on rebuking and how should I help them? (Continued) 1:31:33 Consequences of not rebuking or not listening to rebuke 1:34:56 When do I give the benefit of the doubt? 1:38:16 Chassidut is not against rebuking. You have to try rebuking, but you have to do it with love. 1:48:22 Amazing advice by Rabbi Salant to apply to help others do teshuva. 1:51:42 If you want to be a good parent, teach your kids when they are still young about honesty. 2:00:17 Response to people who don’t like telling the truth not to turn people off 2:05:26 Who is the best person for me to help do teshuva? How do I help my immediate family do teshuva? 2:15:36 A memorable story that will change your perspective on giving advice #jewish #torah #rabbiyaronreuven #ramban #mussar #jews #orthodoxjudaism #god #bible #life #teshuva #judaism #love #rebuke 00:00:00 Intoduction 00:00:12 Introduction to Igeret HaRamban Series 00:00:41 Importance of Knowing the Sages 00:01:55 Prayers and Current Events in Israel 00:03:48 Signs and Stupidity of the Generation 00:07:08 Criticism of Leaders and Eurovision 00:09:00 Shabbat Violation and Messiah 00:10:38 Torah Above All Else 00:13:03 Christian Missionaries and Trump 00:15:58 Emulating HaKadosh Baruch Hu 00:17:28 Comparing Sages to Secular Philosophers 00:21:56 Chachamim Write Like Sefer Torah 00:22:51 Iggeret HaRamban Book and Recommendation 00:25:37 Shema: The Importance of Listening 00:28:43 Value of Time and the Vilna Gaon 00:30:36 Rebuke: Are They Listening? 00:32:44 Rebuke Is Rejected, Is it Okay? 00:35:57 The Importance of Hearing 00:38:10 Is This Person Listening? 00:40:03 Vayishma Yitro - Yitro Heard 00:42:02 Start With Something Small 00:43:59 Actions, Not Appearances, Matter 00:45:22 Hearing: The Critical Sense 00:46:43 The Hearing of a Surgeon vs a Paratrooper 00:47:40 Who is Wise? 00:48:36 Shomer that Listens 00:50:00 Picking Your Teacher 00:52:23 If the Teacher Tells You That You're the Best as is 00:53:46 Don't Judge Simply by the Way They Look 00:55:59 The Soldier and the Shoe Laces 00:58:41 The Power of Doing One Mitzvah 01:00:56 Left, Right, Ties, Right 01:02:32 Consequences for Doing Things the Right Way 01:05:20 Why, 'Shema B'ni' 01:07:11 You Have to Show Love 01:09:33 Show Them You Care and People Are Ignorant 01:11:19 Potential To Be Righteous or to Cause Other People to Sin 01:13:42 Sinning by Yourself Vs Others 01:16:21 Do Right By Other People 01:19:18 Did Hashem Do the Holocaust? 01:22:10 Hashem Speaks Even if You Treat Him Like Coincidence 01:25:50 Behave, It Will All Come Back To You 01:28:36 Make Sure They Know That You Care 01:31:42 Being A Talmid 01:33:36 If You Rebuke You Are Out of Responsibility 01:35:37 Must Give People the Benefit of the Doubt 01:37:30 Not Every Person Will Do Teshuva 01:40:35 Shema B'ni Musar- Must Rebuke 01:42:37 Love Must Be Paired With Mussar 01:43:54 Those Not Rebuked Have It Worse Than All 01:45:03 Power of Torah Is Powerful Than Anything 01:46:58 Remind Them That Mussar Is Coming From Aviha- a Father 01:49:28 A Great Shiur Lesson - It's Only His Kid 01:51:57 Importance of Teaching Honesty From a Young Age 01:53:25 How to Make Sure You're on the Right Path 01:54:59 Only Lie A Little Bit 01:56:45 Saba of Slabodka Says to Never Steal 01:58:36 How Honesty Can Be Rewarding 02:00:04 Small Lies Will Be A Serious Problem 02:01:25 How to Guarantee Results 02:03:12 Power of Torah is Extraordinary 02:04:39 Be and Ish Emet - True 02:05:39 Depends on if He Excepts You to Rebuke Him 02:06:40 Who Will They Listen Too? 02:08:48 Paro's Decree 02:10:06 What to do When Friends or Family Don't Listen 02:11:52 What to Remember From All That 02:13:03 People Cannot Get Past There Own Ego 02:15:24 They Don't Want Full Teshuva Only Partial 02:16:19 Most Effective to Help Strangers 02:18:39 Look at Everybody As There Son 02:20:11 Lesson - Everyone Had a Yankele 02:22:08 Be unbiased 02:22:38 Conclusion and Tomorrow