The Big Effect Small Habits Have On Raising Children - MUSSAR Pirkei Avot (80)

In this shiur by Rabbi Yaron Reuven, he discusses the story of Alicia ben Avuyah, a prominent Talmudic figure who went off the derech. Rabbi Yaron Reuven provides insights into the mistakes that led to Alicia's downfall. He emphasizes the importance of learning Torah for the right reasons, and warns against seeking material benefits from Torah study. He explains the dangers of delving into mystical aspects of Torah without proper understanding. Rabbi Yaron Reuven also discusses the significance of truth, regardless of who speaks it. Overall, the shiur highlights the importance of learning Torah with the right intentions and maintaining a deep connection to Hashem. Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCi-fAdFBv83gUzBgKm3PAyw/join BUILD WITH US (Who Is BeEzrat HaShem Inc) http://www.BHYESHIVA.com BeEzrat HaShem YESHIVA & BEIT MUSSAR BUILDING BUILD A JEWISH COMMUNITY THAT WILL CHANGE THE WORLD 00:00 Introduction 06:58 What can we learn from Jacob? 22:13 Who is Elisha ben Avuya? Is it possible for such a person to go bad? 1:31:17 Are you raising your child to become a Jew or a Greek? Why must women not wear pants? 1:57:26 Valuable advice on raising kids 2:09:51 Chapter 4 Mishnah 25 continued. Make self sacrifices, and make Torah your priority! 2:33:37 Just because you didn’t hear it before, it doesn’t make it wrong 2:38:57 Important advice on raising kids (continued) 2:47:38 Male modesty #Judaism #Jewish #RabbiYaronReuven #MUSSAR #PirkeiAvot #Torah #Jews #OrthodoxJudaism #KIRUV 00:00:00 Intoduction 00:00:13 Introduction: Setting the Stage 00:00:50 Understanding Jewish Life & Marriage 00:02:07 Prayers for Healing 00:02:59 The Impact of Small Decisions 00:04:27 Story of the Electric Company Button 00:06:44 Yaakov's Journey and Marriage Preparation 00:09:48 Wrong Reasons for Marriage 00:12:05 Modesty and Intimacy 00:14:01 Purpose of Marriage and Having Kids 00:15:56 Yaakov and Lavan: Faith and Deception 00:22:26 Elisha ben Avuyah: Mishnah and Background 00:25:12 Excuses vs. Questions for Faith 00:28:02 Understanding Hashem's Ways 00:30:18 Parah Adumah (Red Heifer) Example 00:34:34 Importance of Righteousness and Emunah 00:37:00 Story of Yochanan and Yannai 00:38:56 The greatness of Rabbi Meir Baal HaNes's teacher 00:40:53 Qualities of a Gadol HaDor 00:43:23 Stories and Lessons From Israel 00:46:39 Rav Ovadia and signing Kids to Yeshivot 00:48:59 The Story of Elisha ben Avuyah's birth 00:51:06 Rav Shach and committing to Torah 00:55:00 Fear of Sin vs Wisdom 00:57:10 Turning into a Kofer 01:00:34 Studying Mystical Torah 01:04:19 Studying with correct intentions 01:06:14 Importance of Reading Torah 01:08:49 Focusing on Today, Not Just Mashiach 01:10:44 Intimacy with Hashem 01:13:25 Hashem's thoughts aren't like our's 01:15:17 Benefits of Material Wealth 01:18:05 Going into Kollel 01:20:04 Elisha ben Avuyah and his student: Rabbi Meir Baal HaNes 01:22:59 All crimes are exempt from sex crimes 01:25:24 Story between Eliezer and Avraham 01:28:38 Bilaam HaRasha Story 01:31:48 Elisha ben Avuyah: How I went off the Derech 01:33:21 Greatest tradition 01:35:11 Teach them when they are clean 01:38:30 Do not Destroy our children 01:41:19 Does anybody wants to be a jew? 01:42:50 Is it a big problem when you curses? 01:45:10 Is it rap music? 01:47:58 It is modest clothing 01:51:00 Perfect Diamond 01:52:42 Don't be to be a greek 01:55:00 Is celebrating Thanksgiving? 01:56:58 If Ima and Abba make this you are ruined 01:59:15 Caveman 02:01:14 Shema Yisrael 02:04:20 She is not a kid 02:06:45 iPhone 02:09:11 Does not need to do Techuva 02:10:41 Paper being study of Torah 02:13:16 Not all the same on the Torah 02:15:09 The best way of studying Torah 02:17:03 It is important to think about 02:19:08 They can user the imagination 02:21:47 About to Rashi 02:24:26 Story about Rabee Yitzchak 02:26:58 Does not have choice to the Kings 02:28:56 Ruined is a soul 02:30:49 Gan Eden, we can't let you in 02:32:37 I see and a smoke grave 02:36:04 Do think that the Greeks 02:39:05 Big Rabee 02:41:15 Big Talent 02:43:30 What is the secret of this Gift? 02:47:09 The big difference