Why Should You Send Your Husband to Shiur Torah? (6 Minutes)
Full Shiur: MUSSAR Pirkei Avot (92) The 10 Miracles Created Before Shabbat PART 1 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-VfvYAakelU Rabbi Yaron Reuven explains the importance of sending husbands to shiur Torah. He emphasizes that it's more than just a social gathering or a chance to eat good food. Shiur Torah is training for a man to become a better husband and a more righteous person. The rabbi highlights that the wife benefits from her husband's learning because she receives a share of the merit he accrues. He compares it to a bank account: Every time her husband learns, she gains merit too. He then challenges the idea that only men are obligated to learn Torah, stating that women also benefit greatly from Torah study, even if they're not obligated to learn in the same way as men. The ultimate reason for engaging in mitzvot is because HaShem commanded it, and this applies to sending one's husband to shiur Torah as well. If you'd like to invite R' Yaron Reuven to give a lecture at your synagogue, home or office please call 917.468.2324 or email Yaron@BeEzratHaShem.org . Yaron Reuven is based out of Boca Raton, Florida, but travels around the world to give lectures to different groups. Visit us at www.BeEzratHaShem.org Click here https://soundcloud.com/yaronreuven/sets/daily-chidush To Listen to our very popular "Daily Chidush" short audio series on soundcloud.com Join one of our interactive "Interesting Torah" Whatsapp groups to get daily messages of short Torah clips that can uplift your day by texting the number above. Please join our Facebook page Be'Ezrat HaShem page and join our group "Torah Lessons To Help Our Lives". This Group is solely about publicizing HaShem's holy Torah from my lectures as well as great Rabbi's such as Rabbi Efraim Kachlon, Rabbi Yosef Mizrachi, Rabbi Zamir Cohen, Rabbi Pinto, and anyone else that is teaching interesting and relevant Torah. We will also bring you some brand new lectures directly from a Kollel in Jerusalem you won't find anywhere else. Torah posts will be in Hebrew and English. There are plenty of places to find entertaining stories that sound great, but this group is about showing you Torah that can impact your life, hence the name Torah Lessons To Help Our Lives. If it's not impactul, then it won't fit in. I watch and read all that I personally post, so I promise to do my best to bring you only the best quality of Hashem's amazing Torah. The Torah is the only thing in the world that you can learn and have an outcome that makes you SMARTER, WISER, And a BETTER Human Being. If the Torah you're learning is no longer impacting your life in a positive way, than its time for a change. If you haven't learned Torah in a long time or ever, then its time to start friend. I guarantee you will enjoy the journey and life will never be the same, if you just give it a real chance. Kiruv and Kiddush Hashem is our #1 goal. So please feel free to contact me if you are interested in getting more FREE material. We would be have to send you Torach lecture DVDs, CD's and a Book for FREE to anyone that is serious about learning them. If you are far from Hashem and His Torah, our goal is to get help you get closer. Thank you for the opportunity and May Hashem bless you with a life full of Torah #Torah #Shiur #rabbiyaronreuven #jewish #bible #god #judaism 00:00:00 Intoduction 00:01:26 Torah Learning vs. Food 00:01:55 Wife's Merit in Husband's Torah 00:02:48 Women's Reward and Gan Eden 00:03:23 Women Bringing the Messiah 00:03:49 Obligation and Reward 00:04:37 Torah in One Sentence: Hashem Said So 00:05:02 Obligation and a Bigger Reward 00:05:37 Gan Eden Through Torah Learning
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1:26The sushi is going over here and here, and this guy likes this sushi better than the other one. Where's the Torah? Where, where's the Torah? Where's the Torah? Eat and enjoy the food. I even bring food here sometimes for you guys. But the point is, if the food is the reason you're going, it's not Torah. If the food is the reason you're going, it's not Torah. That's why I don't spoil you and bring you food every week, so sometimes... It's like a feast with some, you know, Moshe Rabbeinu stories. But when a woman, a wife, young or old, sends her husband to go learn Torah, she has to understand it's better than sending him to go to work. It's better than sending him to go to the supermarket and... Better than sending him anywhere else, you're sending him to get training to be a real husband. You're sending him to become a tzaddik. Now, why is this good for you? Aside from benefiting in this world, your husband is going to become a tzaddik and obviously a nicer person, usually more generous, and so on. So why is it so good? Because every single zechut he gets, you get.
2:48Every single time he gets a mitzvah for a second of Torah that he listens, you get in your account also. The Gemara says, why do women get Gan Eden? For what? What do they do? They don't learn Torah. They learn a little bit here and there, other than my talmidim. Nobody learns like my talmidim. My talmidot, the women that learn my Torah, I wish the guys learned as much as them. Look at them. You guys have no notes. The women, Baruch Hashem, have notes. They're writing everything. You guys are batlanim. What happens? Batlanim I have over here. All the women have notes. They're writing down. The guys are camping over here. Listen, I have to... You're not at that level. The women are at that level. You're not at that level. So this is what we're up to. This is what we got to. But that's why it says that the women are going to bring the Messiah. Now I understand it. You just gave me a chidush. You gave me a chidush. The women are going to bring the Messiah. Baruch Hashem. We have women who are going to bring the Messiah. Ashreichem, Ashreichem Yisrael. Now Rabotai, you have to understand. You have to understand. All kidding aside, you have to understand.
3:49says, why does a woman get a reward then if she doesn't learn Torah like the guy? Why, like a husband, she doesn't, she's not obligated. Who gets the bigger reward? Someone who's obligated or not obligated? No, you said obligated, not obligated. Okay, it's 50/50. Obligated, good for you guys, good judge, both of you meant it, both men, both sides were right. The real answer is the one that's obligated. The one that's obligated gets a much bigger zechut. Why? They're both having just as much difficulty. Chazak u'baruch, but even more so, the one that's obligated gets the zechut because he listened to Hashem. That is the reason why we do everything—all the mitzvot. If someone says to you, "Give me the entire Torah in one sentence," what can you say? Hashem said so. Beginning, middle, and end—that's it. Hashem said so. Why do you do it? Hashem said so. Why is it good? Hashem said so. That's it. That's the entire Torah, Rabotai (gentlemen).
5:02The one that's obligated, the one that's obligated, gets the biggest chelek. Why? Because he's doing what Hashem said. Now, obviously, someone that's not obligated also gets chelek. But it's not as great. So the Gemara asks, why does a woman go to Gan Eden if she's not obligated to learn Torah? You have to understand, the ones that are sending their husbands to shiur Torah understand this. Why? Because the Gemara says she gets Gan Eden for sending her husband to go learn Torah. Not to go to work, not to go to Wall Street, not to go sell cars, not to go build buildings. She doesn't get Gan Eden for buildings. She doesn't get Gan Eden for diamonds. She doesn't get Gan Eden for anything. What does she get Gan Eden for? Sending him to a shiur Torah. Why? If he goes and learns Torah, he's going to become a human being. If he becomes a human being, they're both going to be. Their kids are going to be. Generation after generation is going to be, b'ezrat Hashem.
