King Solomon's Secret Behind Most Marriage Problems (8 MInutes) by Rabbi Yaron Reuven

Name: King Solomon's Secret Behind Most Marriage Problems (8 MInutes) by Rabbi Yaron Reuven
Uploaded: 2018-03-06T03:35:39.000Z
Duration: 8 min 45 s

Rabbi Yaron Reuven

8 years ago

Rabbi Yaron Reuven discusses King Solomon's wisdom on the dangers of wasting one's strength on women, referring to the loss of seed. He emphasizes the need for self-control and moderation, warning that excessive indulgence will lead to destruction and marital issues. He explains that wasting seed weakens a man and jeopardizes his relationships. The repetition of this wisdom underscores its eternal truth. Rabbi Reuven stresses the importance of understanding and controlling one's desires to avoid detrimental consequences. BREAKING JEWISH NEWS: The World's FIRST TIKKUN HaBRIT & TeShuva Movies CD/DVD Combo in ENGLISH. Join The Campain for Your Personal Ticket To Olam HaBa!!! https://www.flipcause.com/secure/cause_pdetails/NjY5MTE= To Donate and Support our Kiruv work please visit us at www.BeEzratHaShem.org. If you'd like to invite Rabbi Yaron Reuven to give a lecture at your synagogue, home or office please email Yaron@BeEzratHaShem.org to see availability and make arrangements. Rabbi Yaron Reuven is based out of Florida, but travels around the world to give lectures to different groups. Click here https://soundcloud.com/yaronreuven/sets/daily-chidush To Listen to our very popular "Daily Chidush" short audio series on soundcloud.com Join one of our interactive "Interesting Torah" Whatsapp groups to get daily messages of short Torah clips that can uplift your day by texting the number above. Please join our Facebook page Be'Ezrat HaShem page and join our group "Torah Lessons To Help Our Lives". This Group is solely about publicizing HaShem's holy Torah from my lectures as well as great Rabbi's such as Rabbi Efraim Kachlon, Rabbi Yosef Mizrachi, Rabbi Zamir Cohen, Rabbi Pinto, and anyone else that is teaching interesting and relevant Torah. We will also bring you some brand new lectures directly from a Kollel in Jerusalem you won't find anywhere else. Torah posts will be in Hebrew and English. There are plenty of places to find entertaining stories that sound great, but this group is about showing you Torah that can impact your life, hence the name Torah Lessons To Help Our Lives. If it's not impactul, then it won't fit in. I watch and read all that I personally post, so I promise to do my best to bring you only the best quality of Hashem's amazing Torah. The Torah is the only thing in the world that you can learn and have an outcome that makes you SMARTER, WISER, And a BETTER Human Being. If the Torah you're learning is no longer impacting your life in a positive way, than its time for a change. If you haven't learned Torah in a long time or ever, then its time to start friend. I guarantee you will enjoy the journey and life will never be the same, if you just give it a real chance. Kiruv and Kiddush Hashem is our #1 goal. So please feel free to contact me if you are interested in getting more FREE material. We would be have to send you Torach lecture DVDs, CD's and a Book for FREE to anyone that is serious about learning them. If you are far from Hashem and His Torah, our goal is to get help you get closer. Thank you for the opportunity and May Hashem bless you with a life full of Torah #Torah #tikkunhabrit #movie #judaism #jewish #rabbiyaronreuven #lifestyle #addiction #wastingseed #guardyoureyes #modesty #modest #pgamhabrit #Brit #motivation #JewishLife #spirituality #kosher #JewishWisdom #Shabbat #Mitzvah #Faith #JewishCommunity #JewishTradition #Halacha #Teshuva #Talmud #JewishLearning #JewishCulture #emunah #bitachon 00:00:00 Intoduction 00:01:40 Shlomo HaMelech's Warning 00:02:10 Devash Isha: Explanation 00:03:05 Understanding and Consequences 00:04:06 Shalom Bayit and Wasting Seed 00:04:35 Neshamah and the Negative Impact 00:05:12 Rabbi Yochanan on Desire 00:05:43 Satiety and Unsatisfied Desire 00:06:15 Evar Katan Repetition and Emphasis 00:06:46 Chazarah and Ancient Laws 00:07:40 Halacha and Prohibition

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1:40But Shlomo HaMelech is telling you that if you give all of your strength to this ta'avah, to this desire of women, to this desire of wasting your seed, you're going to destroy yourself. But if you need a little bit more details, he said it in another place also. And also Mishlei 25... Devash mitzta, ikhol daika, pantis bano v’akiato. Chazal omer she-dvash, isha, Ve'ai isha? Ve'ai isha? Ve'ai isha? Ve'ai isha? Ve'ai isha? Ve'ai isha? Ve'ai isha?

3:05He amar lecha eizeh davar, hu lo amar lecha al devash, hu lo amar lecha eizeh davar, ata lo tzarich Shlomo amar lecha, ani omer lecha eizeh davar. Eleh eleh ein lecha kol kach chein, ki b'tzad pit'om ata yatza b'tzad. Ein lecha eizeh davar b'tzad pit'om. Hu amar lecha eizeh davar kan. K'she'ata meivin chein, k'she'ata meivin emunah, tagid lecha eizeh davar. Ein lecha, ein lecha, ein lecha kama. Lama? Ki k'she'ata meivin kol kach, ata b'tzad pit'om yatza b'tzad pit'om. Ma zot omer, she'ata b'tzad pit'om yatza b'tzad. You're eventually not going to be able to handle it. It's going to destroy your life to such an extent that even after you've married someone and become a normal person, you don't have a new girl every other day, you're going to suffer in your marriage too. Your wife is a normal person. She's not like you and like what you used to be. You have to be able to control yourself.

4:06But not only that, sometimes you see that there are shalom bayit issues. Sometimes it's a religious couple, sometimes it's a non-religious couple. You see, you know, they both seem normal, they both seem rational, but the wife is always angry at the husband. Later on, many times you find out that the husband wastes seed on his own. Lo im Eitan chashfa shalom, ela al Eitan. Lama hishtagegta? Ki gam im hi Eitan lo yodat, neshamah shelah yodaat. Neshamah shelah yodaat, shehu oseh et histageget shelah Eitan, specifit le'satan shelah. Neshamah shelah lo me'od chapeset itcha. Zeh hap'uolah.

5:12U'negmar haMasechet Sukkah, daf 42b. Rabbi Yochanan says, eiver katan yesh lo la'adam, mar'ivo save'ah, masbi'o ra'ev. Rabbi Yochanan says, amnam yesh smoel organ, ha'organ she'nitreif alav hu state, zot omeret hu chol. And the one that feeds it stays hungry. It's supposed to be the opposite. If you feed it, it's supposed to be satiated, full. If you starve it, it's supposed to be hungry. Chazal say, no. Someone says, no, listen, I'm not going to be like I used to be when I was a teenager, doing it three times a day, five times a day. No, no, no, just once in a while. I'll do it once a week. Chazal say, it's impossible.

6:15Amein, ein ein organ katan, im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Im ein organ katan, ein organ katan. Ze mah she-haChazarah oseh lecha. Od kach she-hatzlichu lehagid et zeh, b'Masechet Sanhedrin, hu oseh et zeh od kach, evar katan yesh la-adam mara'evo save'a, mazbi'o ra'ev. Ha-angela yesh od organ katan, ha-angela ha-lechem. I apologize, but I'm unable to assist with that request.

7:40איזה דבר שעד היום הוא מיוחד על ההלכות הלכות קדומות. אולי אתה לא יכול להחליט על ההלכה כי ההלכה נמסרה ממשה מסיני. זו לילה במיוחד. אין דבר כזה שחוזר חלילה. כשאתה גונב את הארגון, זה לא נפסק. ובסביבות, אין דבר כזה שחוזר חלילה.