Long Term Damage of ANGRY MARRIAGE SLEEP (3 Minutes)
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0:11Question: Where is the source of the concept that a person shouldn't go to sleep if he's angry? Let's say there's a conflict between him and his wife, or her and her husband, or whoever's angry—where's the source? Now, to some extent, a person may get to a point where his only solution is to go to sleep.
1:37Such conditions when I'm suffering, saying Shalom Aleichem, it's good peace upon me. Everything's okay. You're sleeping and I'm crying my heart out, Shamayim, you know, you may not wake up. You may not wake up. Why? That person is gonna suffer the whole night because they can't go to sleep. They're crying the whole night. Heart's broken, but you're sleeping. Let me explain. He's tired. Yeah, you should have thought about them before you cursed out our mother. Thought about that before you yelled at her, before you insulted her, before you insulted him. Saying everything is okay doesn't make it right. Okay, I'll deal with it tomorrow. You'll deal with it tomorrow, yeah, but she's dealing with it now. He's dealing with it now. So, this is a part of being considerate for the other party. Understanding that when you have empathy, you're thinking about it from their perspective. When you're selfless, you're thinking about it from their perspective as well. Okay, you're over it. You're not angry anymore. You're fine. You're tired, fine, but they're still angry. They're still upset. They're still offended. They're still hurt, and you're just going to go to sleep and let them stay that way?
2:52That's not fair. That's not being selfless. That's being selfish. Yeah, but I'm tired, exactly. You're selfish. Your tiredness is more important than their heart. That's not nice. So this was pure, at least as far as answering your question, because I didn't have an answer to your question when you asked it.
