NO ONE LOVES YOU MORE Than The Rebuker (10 Min)
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1:34אולי אני אראה את הדברים בצורה שונה, אני צריך לחשוב יותר לעומק על כך, ואולי למצוא פתרונות אחרים. האפשרות לשנות את התגובה או למצוא גישה אחרת יכולה להביא לשינוי חיובי. ... desecrator of Hashem's name, being a mechallel Shabbat, being an idol worshiper, by saying he's a tzaddik, he's kadosh... being a desecrator of Hashem's name, being a mechallel Shabbat, being an idol worshiper, by saying he's a tzaddik, he's kadosh, he's the best, he has a good heart, Hashem understands you, you're the best,
2:49And letting him continue living a life of sin that he will have to pay for for eternity in a very, very hot fire that will never end. The rebuker that he and all of his friends hate with a passion is his only hope to do teshuva. The rebuker is the only one that reminds him, "Hey buddy, you have to stop violating Shabbat." or, or, or, or, or, or, or, or, or. months. He feels every moment, every second, slip away like sand through his fingers.
4:17B'bikur, eis'chas gadol bi'tah aviron. Ur'u u'lai da'ulat esh'tem esrei chodesh? I really am, I really was hoping you'd be my patient for another 20 years. After the patient leaves, the doctor cries for another five or ten minutes. And he says, you know what? I'm not gonna do this anymore. I'm not gonna give people bad news anymore. Little does he know his next patient arrives with the same terminal disease and only one year to live. Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green, Eitan ein green. And he says, you know what? My buddy. I told my buddy, I love him. He's been coming to my office for 20 years. We go to shul together. We hang out together. Our kids, our this, our that. I upset him. I can't believe it. You know what? I'm not going to do it again. So he tells the next patient, you're good. What? I'm good? Everything's good? What about this thing growing out of my arm? No, it's nothing. It's just callous. It's nothing. It's good. It's an ingrown hair.
5:43Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan ein geren, Eitan a The guy goes home and he's happy. He hugs his wife. He hugs his kids. Everything is good. See, you're all worried for nothing. And he goes back to his life. A year follows and the family of both deceased people see the doctor. One family thanks him while the other one... Kore'im lecha "Apeem" ve'orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem" kore'im lahem, orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem." Orchim kore'im lecha "Apeem."
7:08He says, "Yeah, but I don't want to hurt him. I don't want him to cry like my other friend." He says, "Yes, but if he cried at first, he would have done something about it. He would have cried at first that now he has to change his life. Now he has to get a divorce because he's intermarried. Now he has to quit his job because he works on Shabbat. Now he has to change his life and he has to watch his mouth. Now he has to change himself because he has to watch his middot. Now he has to change his clothes because he has to put clothes on." Ain ain ain ain ain ain ain ain ain ain ain ain ain And he never spent any time with his family. He never spent any time doing teshuva. And he never spent any time appreciating anything. Because he was so busy working. He was so busy living the false life he was living. Because he was convinced, like all of us, that he had at least another 80 years to go. So the last year that he had, you just stole it from him, which is the equivalent of you stealing everything from him.
8:36You took all he had. You took all he had left. Your friend that cried, yeah, he cried at first, but at least his last year, after he made the changes, he didn't go back to work anymore. Because he knew he didn't have much time left. So he used the time he had left doing things that are useful. In eretz yisrael, at peace, because he made an adjustment. But I'm sure now the family loves him. Because now he is in Gan Eden. And again, doing things, learning Torah, spending with family, doing things that are useful toward ruchniyut. עדיין תשובה, ללמוד תורה, spending time עם המשפחה, doing דברים שאתה מועיל על-פיהם. אין ערך לעשות תשובה על היתר, כי אין made an adjustment. אבל אני מבטיח לך שהמשפחה אוהבת אותך עכשיו, כי עכשיו אתה בגן עדן. ועוד, על-ידי doing דברים doing דברים doing דברים doing דברים doing דברים doing דברים doing דברים doing דברים doing דברים doing. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
9:50Financially, even though he knows it's going to hurt him emotionally when you make the right decisions against him and his family, and everything is about it, he knows you're going to do it. But he loves you just enough to tell you the truth because, eventually, we're all going to meet somewhere, and hopefully, we'll both be in the same place.
