WHY ARE YOU YELLING??? - MUSSAR Iggeret HaRAMBAN (4)

Rabbi Yaron Reuven's lecture covers the essence of Torah observance, ethical conduct, and the distinction between divine commands and human opinions. He addresses contemporary societal issues, emphasizing the importance of adhering to Torah values in a world that often contradicts them. Through examples and teachings, Rabbi Reuven encourages a life aligned with God's will, highlighting the consequences of ignoring divine laws. He motivates listeners to embrace Torah study and mitzvot, illustrating their transformative impact on personal and communal levels. To Donate and Support our Kiruv work please visit us at www.BeEzratHaShem.org. If you'd like to invite Rabbi Yaron Reuven or Rabbi Efraim Kachlon to give a lecture at your synagogue, home or office please email Yaron@BeEzratHaShem.org to see availability and make arrangements. Rabbi Yaron Reuven is based out of Florida, but travels around the world to give lectures to different groups. Click here https://soundcloud.com/yaronreuven/sets/daily-chidush To Listen to our very popular "Daily Chidush" short audio series on soundcloud.com Join one of our interactive "Interesting Torah" Whatsapp groups to get daily messages of short Torah clips that can uplift your day by texting the number above. 0:00 Introduction 0:57 What is spiritual laziness? 1:39 How do I know these lectures are telling me what G-d said? Why does it matter? 6:34 Money can be a blessing or a curse 9:13 The danger of becoming addicted to drugs 12:10 Money can be a blessing or a curse (continued) 12:40 Scary verses clearly showing punishment in the Torah 21:00 The worst punishment you can receive in this world (Rambam) 22:55 You have an opportunity to get eternity, since you are listening to this lecture. Choose right, and you won’t regret it 28:26 Why can’t money bring happiness? 29:58 You need Hashem for everything, so don’t go against Him and stay the same bad person 31:07 A very important message for girls looking for a husband 34:39 Why does the Rabbi yell? 35:37 Prepare to deal with the problem before it comes 39:19 Train yourself to be a winner, not a loser 41:42 Know what to train yourself for — learn how to behave under pressure 45:10 Why does the Rabbi yell? (Continued) Heartbreaking but beautiful answer 50:22 There are rabbis telling people things against the Torah, so make sure what you are learning is from G-d 53:54 Why does the Rabbi yell? (Continued) Why does the Rabbi teach mostly about the basics? 58:55 Think before doing and saying something. Talk to everyone politely 1:01:00 Unbelievable explanation why we take three steps back before we pray 1:04:19 Talk to everyone politely (continued) 1:05:04 Don’t lie even about small things 1:05:59 Don’t think that “no offense” is okay 1:07:17 Sometimes we lie to and disrespect the people we love the most 1:13:24 People that are calm when big things happen, but when small things happen, they lose their mind 1:17:30 If you want to be one of the righteous and wise, contain yourself in all circumstances — even under pressure 1:19:02 Why is mussar effective? 1:19:42 If you lie, you will be punished with a lie— measure for measure. Incredible insights from the story of Jacob and Esav 1:27:06 Measure for measure principle contained in Pirkei Avot. Without teshuva, measure for measure applies 1:28:31 Who does Hashem love? (Gemara) 1:29:48 1) someone who doesn’t get angry. How do I get to a point of never getting angry? 1:33:41 2) someone who doesn’t get drunk. Torah source showing that you can’t use drugs. Why does it make you not so different from the aghori tribe? 1:37:17 The aghori tribe and other crazy idol-worshipping tribes 1:41:07 Hebrew language secret shows difference between Jew and hodu idol worshipper. 1:42:08 How bad is violating Shabbat? (Torah sources) 1:45:32 2) someone who doesn’t get drunk (continued) 1:46:29 3) someone not insisting “on his due measure.” Story about someone who publicly insulted Rav Kaduri 1:51:52 Marijuana and morphine for certain pain? 1:56:18 Why do you drink wine on Shabbat? 1:57:02 Do you get drunk on Purim? Why did two of Aaron’s sons die? 1:59:39 What about four cups of wine on Pesach? 2:00:10 don’t try to escape reality, for suffering is temporary. An important insight m from a man who jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge and survived 2:04:25 Not allowed to drink and hold a Sefer Torah 2:05:53 don’t get drunk or take drugs at all, and you have love from #jewish #torah #rabbiyaronreuven #ramban #mussar #jews #orthodoxjudaism #god #bible #life #teshuva #judaism #yelling 00:00:00 Intoduction 00:00:12 Introduction: Igeret HaRamban Series 00:00:37 Preparing for Torah Learning 00:01:14 Taking Shiur Seriously 00:01:44 Reliable Sources of Torah Teachings 00:02:11 Verifying Information and Avoiding Bias 00:03:28 God's Commandments vs. Human Opinions 00:05:46 Blessings and Consequences: This Week's Parasha 00:07:36 The Curse of Unearned Parnasah and Addiction 00:11:22 Avoiding Spiritual Dangers and Listening to God 00:15:55 Consequences of Disobeying God's Covenant 00:17:43 The Importance of Teshuva and Choosing Good 00:18:42 Learning from the Past: Avoiding Destruction 00:21:11 Eternal Punishment: Loss of Free Choice 00:21:59 The Last Chance to Do Teshuva 00:22:53 Taking Opportunity to Save your Eternity 00:23:47 Life can end in a moment 00:26:49 Take advantage to listening to Torah now 00:28:04 Free Will: Biggest Winners or Biggest Losers 00:28:34 Wall Street Millionaires and Billionaires 00:29:28 Happiness is a spiritual feeling 00:30:29 Do Teshuva or Run Away 00:31:13 The Right way to find a spouse 00:33:38 What are you going to find in the secular world? 00:34:36 Over 2 million minutes a month learning Torah 00:35:34 Speaking Gently: Ramban's Advice 00:36:03 Accustom Yourself for problems before it happens 00:37:04 Training for War Before it Happens 00:38:33 Already I know I need to control myself 00:39:02 Train Yourself to not get angry 00:39:59 Psychological training affects you phisically 00:40:31 In the Imagination, they're always winning 00:41:27 Meaning if you train yourself psychologically 00:42:26 You have to train yourself for things that are within your ability 00:43:53 How do you React under Pressure 00:44:44 Train yourself, you'll know how to deal with it 00:45:12 Gently in Teaching Torah 00:45:36 Speak Gently for whatever you are doing 00:46:54 HaKadosh Baruch Hu was speaking through his throat 00:47:25 How Come you Yelling? 00:48:46 In a Place it Hurts you Scream 00:49:41 It's painful to know the truth and see reality 00:50:42 Atheist Teacher at Yeshiva 00:51:54 As Long as you Don't teach Atheism 00:52:54 Don't Be lazy and double check 00:53:48 You Need to Double Check 00:54:19 How come you yell 00:55:11 In the Generation you need to Scream Gevalt 00:56:06 Back to basics 00:57:23 Ethics is What We Teach 00:58:47 You Have to Think Before you Act 00:59:09 Accustom yourself to Speak Gently to all People 00:59:57 If they're making a baal teshuva uncomportable, all their Torah is worthless 01:00:54 Honor Hashems Name to Put His Name First 01:01:52 You Believe in Their God 01:02:38 How Come you put their god last on the letter 01:03:32 3 steps gave a Reward Like no Other 01:04:21 Politely Teach all People the Same 01:05:18 You have accustomized to lie on a Daily Basis 01:05:46 When We Lie About Small Things We Lie About Big Things 01:06:12 People think giving a disclaimer allows them to insult you 01:07:11 Anytime Anyplace, get Lyring out of Your System 01:07:51 At Home He Turns into a Beast 01:08:44 Because he got used to Them 01:09:15 He's so used to Everything, he takes it for Granted 01:09:32 I abuse Them a Little Bit, not a big Deal 01:10:25 All I Could Think About Was That I Let Them Down 01:11:11 Programming Yourself so Bad Things will know How to React 01:12:21 Program Yourself Before the Problems 01:13:12 Bad Things Never Bothered Me 01:13:42 They're a Big Deal Because You Came in Late 01:16:26 He Overreacted For the Smallest Things 01:17:28 When Under Pressure, Control Yourself 01:17:57 How can I Do it All the Time 01:18:21 Learn Mussar: Ethics to Become a Stronger Person 01:18:49 The main things That Mussar Teaches us is Consequence 01:19:48 One Was Honest, More Honest Than the Greatest Honest Person 01:20:13 How to fool Yitzchak so Simply 01:21:28 How Is Yitzchak Fooled so simply 01:22:23 Is It Because People Lie, you Think that Everone is A Lier 01:23:18 Accuse Others what You Are Doing 01:23:57 Yaakov Never Lied 01:25:05 Yitzchak wasnt Fooled by Yaakov, he was Fooled by Esav 01:25:48 Hashem Runs the World Measure for Measure 01:26:35 This is How Hashem Runs the World 01:27:27 What You Did was Done to You 01:28:13 You Did will Be Done to You if Dont do teshuva 01:28:43 To become One of the Beloved of Hashem 01:29:37 Three Whom the Holy One Loves 01:30:29 To Never Get Angry 01:32:28 B'Shamayim 01:33:24 If You Don't Know There's a Relationship 01:33:51 Why Does He Love People That Dont Get Drunk? 01:34:21 Don't ingest any unnecessary Drugs 01:35:00 Cannot Say Shema and More When Drunk 01:35:29 He created Everything Why aren't you Scared? 01:36:33 State of mind by Choice 01:37:04 Don't be an Aghori 01:37:30 Goy 01:38:28 India Does With their Bodys 01:39:10 More India Body Scavenging Stories 01:39:41 Burning and Cow 01:41:07 Thank You G-d for Not Making Me a Goy 01:42:04 The Yud of Difference 01:42:28 What To Do to Be a Yehudi and Not Goy 01:43:25 Smoking in Public Means Not a Jew 01:43:44 Not allowed to Cook for Animals and Mechallel shabbat 01:44:41 According to hashem the level if the person doesn't keep Shabbat and Like an Animal 01:45:07 That's It You Chose 01:46:03 Connected 01:46:31 Someone Who doesn't Insist on His Due Measure 01:47:01 Its Because You know that it Came From Me 01:48:01 Rabbi Kaduri 01:48:32 Rasham Insults Rav Kaduri 01:49:21 Ask Your Father First 01:49:51 He Smiles 01:50:33 Rav Kaduri's Face Light UP 01:51:29 It Came From Hashem is a Test 01:51:58 Questions 01:52:20 CBD Doesn't Make You High 01:53:13 Because You Enjoy It 01:53:49 When The pain is so bad take the stronger Medicine 01:54:28 We need to Acknowledge HaShem 01:55:32 Scaming 01:56:01 It's Not a Sin But IF There is Choice it Becomes a Sin 01:57:04 Miraculously Turned What Was Obvious Upside down 01:57:58 Should Try Tipsy 01:58:50 Did a Drink Before Went into Kodesh Hakodashim 01:59:25 Highest You Can Possibly Get 02:00:10 THC Escape reality 02:00:55 I Regret Jumping 02:02:14 Not Permanent 02:02:58 How Long is Real Suffering For you 02:03:45 Hashem Insteals Forgettfulness on us 02:04:31 People aren't Supposed to be Drunk in Shul 02:05:39 Horrible Minhag 02:06:04 Never Gets Drunk 02:06:32 I Can't stand Alcohol 02:07:25 Of Course each Person Needs to Learn 02:08:24 More Q and A's Tomorrow